Synchronise between your thoughts,words and deeds!

Most of us think something, say something else and act differently.This leads to total chaos in our minds and we are left in a confused state. To have a proper balance and a healthy state of mind, we should speak and act according to our thoughts.For eg., if you believe in God and decide to leave everything on him and then if something happens, you just start getting panic...no thats not what you thought of! You should act according to your thoughts and stay calm and happy! Same way, if you decide not to be hurt by anything that happens, then act accordingly...don't react to the smallest thing happening around you ...Your actions are more valued than your words...If your words say you love your neighbors but your actions doesn't show that, then nothing is valued ever...Here your thoughts are also violated with whats going on!! Everything like this leaves you as a confused person with no harmony or blessed state.
The best state is the meditated state of mind, where there is no confusion, no judgment, no envy, no competition, no inferiorities and no explanations. Think something , speak and act accordingly! If you do this, the person standing in front of you in a mirror will respect you to its most and believe me this person is the most important person on the whole earth, because you can lie to anyone but not him!!!

Right and Wrong Things...

At some point, each person should ask himself if he is doing the right things in life, if he is following the right path and if he had to face God suddenly- will he be able to say proudly,looking into God's eyes, that he always tried to follow the right path, no matter how hard it was, no matter how much he had to suffer and no matter how many tissues he used to wipe his tears, he always tried to distinguish between the right and wrong deeds in life!!
It's easy to indulge into the wrong practises like smoking,drinking,flirting,running away from one's duties as initially these things tend to give lots of fun and lots of satisfaction to your heart. But instead of mastering your heart, you should master your mind---Try To Be A Mastermind. This will make your life peaceful and happy in real sense.One who masters the mind(by performing his duties dedicatedly and accepting this life as it comes) can always stand in front of God, looking into his eyes, telling him that ' I sometimes forget that You are with me all the time,that You are watching me all the time and no matter how hard i try I know that I can't be separated from you'
Always remember, from every mistake you make,you should learn something and each time you should come out as a more strong person with better self control and willingness to follow the rightous path...
Lastly, remember that right path is always difficult, but once you try to follow it ...life becomes really easy!!!

Quick Tips for Healthy Communication

When I speak of communication, first thing that comes to my mind is don't try too hard to carry it. If it flows in a normal way, let it flow or else be quiet. Communication also lies in quietness.
When you are new in a group , be rested, relaxed and pick up a topic which is general,of course nothing personal is welcome for the first time....
Always keep this philosophy is mind- Petty minds discuss people, Average minds discuss events and Great minds discuss ideas...
You should always stay focused on what you are talking. Your topic should not wander to many things, it just makes other people think that you are jabbering about things...
Always remember, mind can just take only one thing-either sensible or insensible. If you start talking insensible then your conversation will be directed towards that only, so try to give other way to your communication...
Generally people like if they get to speak of their own self, so give them chance to speak more and try to be a good listener.
Lastly, whatever you speak be confident and precise...
And don't forget , along with all these a smile is always a must!!!